Why it’s hard
The exit is a maze on purpose
The obstacles are consistent enough across platforms to look like a shared playbook rather than a coincidence.
Four moves show up again and again. Deactivation dressed as deletion: the easiest-to-find button only hides your account, leaving the data intact and waiting. A reversal window: real deletion starts a grace period — usually 30 days — and simply logging in during it cancels everything, so a stray notification can undo your decision. A download detour: you’re prompted to export your data first, a reasonable step that also adds a wait and a moment to reconsider. And retention after the fact: even once an account is “deleted,” copies can persist for weeks, and messages you sent stay in other people’s inboxes. None of this is hidden, exactly — it’s just arranged so the path of least resistance is to stay.
The volunteer project JustDeleteMe exists precisely because this friction is everywhere: it catalogs how hard each service is to leave and links straight to the real deletion page. Our table below starts smaller and more current — every entry checked against the platform’s own instructions, with a date — and we’ll grow it over time.
Platform by platform
What leaving actually takes
A verified starter set — the platforms students most often want to leave — checked against each company’s own help pages as of July 2026. We’ll add more, and revisit these, over time.
Buried under “deactivate,” then a 30-day change-your-mind window
In Accounts Center → Personal details → Account ownership and control, choose Delete (not Deactivate). Deletion isn’t instant: a 30-day grace period runs first, and logging back in during it cancels the whole thing. Full removal can take up to 90 days, and messages you sent stay visible to others. Export your information first — nothing is retrievable afterward. Facebook Help Centre
The same Accounts Center maze, and a nudge to “deactivate” instead
Instagram shares Meta’s Accounts Center → Account ownership and control path, and the app steers you toward temporary deactivation before it lets you delete. Deletion disables the account for 30 days; log in once and it comes back, otherwise it’s permanent. Download your data before you start. Instagram Help Center
Deactivate and delete share one button — and a 30-day clock
Settings and privacy → Account → Deactivate or delete account → Delete account permanently, then confirm with a verification code. A 30-day window follows, and logging in cancels it. Note the gap in your backup: the data archive TikTok gives you won’t include drafts, which live only on your device. TikTok Help Center
Only through a separate web portal — and your username is gone for good
Deletion runs through the accounts portal at accounts.snapchat.com, not the app. It deactivates the account for about 30 days before permanent removal, and logging in restores it. Even after you leave, the old username is retired and can’t be reused on a new account. Snapchat Support
“Deactivate” is the only door — and connected apps can quietly reopen it
Settings and privacy → Your account → Deactivate your account starts a 30-day countdown to permanent deletion. There’s a catch worth knowing: a third-party app that still holds permission can log in for you in the background and reset that clock, so revoke connected apps before you start. X Help Center
All five land at Medium — self-serve, but gated behind a 30-day reversal window. That uniformity is itself the finding. As the set grows, expect the extremes to appear: a few services delete in one click, and a few you can only leave by emailing a human.
Before you delete
Download, detach, then pull the trigger
Two minutes of prep keeps the deletion from stalling — or silently reversing.
First, download your data from each account while you still can; the export also shows you how much the platform had been keeping. Second, revoke connected apps — the third-party services you once logged in with — because a lingering permission can log you back in and cancel a pending deletion without your noticing. Then start the deletion, resist the “deactivate” off-ramp, and stay logged out for the full grace period. If you want to lock things down rather than leave outright, our other pages cover the settings that matter most.
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